It's a shame, but the vast majority of men are just idiots when it comes to how to talk to women. For some reason they think that the hormones raging in their body should just be spewed out of their mouth.
Secret number 1. Keep your mouth shut at least 50% of the time.
Women want some sort of emotional connection with you and you're not going to develop that if you start talking about their great tits or ass as an opening line. So here's a few bullet point items for you.
- Don't make rude comments.
- Don't call them babe, hun, sugar or anything like that.
- Never say stupid things like "I want to fuck you". Seriously.
- Don't make any sexual innuendos until the ice is broken.
- Don't talk about sex until she starts bringing it up and even then, be somewhat coy about it.
- Stop talking about yourself and listen to what she has to say.
- Act like you actually give a shit about her by asking her questions about herself. The things she likes and dislikes. Then make sure you don't drift off while she's talking.
- Look her in the eyes even though you want to stare at her tits.
- Be entertaining. In other words, you want to be able to make her laugh as for some reason women just love that.
- Never talk about past girlfriends, religion, politics, work or your own personal issues or problems.
- Be slightly mysterious, just slightly.
- Be confident, fun and funny but DON'T be arrogant.
- Women also love smart men. So impress her with your intelligence, but not by reciting some inane stats and such. Don't come off as being superior to her with your knowledge, act almost humble about it and she'll be all over you.
Although not all inclusive, that's a pretty daunting list to get you started. As you practice and get the experience you need, you'll learn your own techniques and ways of talking to women.
Along with knowing how to talk to them, you also need to learn to read their body language, the subtle signals they use to give you the green light. This includes the way she tilts her head, the direction in which she's facing when talking to you, how she touches her hair etc. The best way to learn the body language though is to get yourself a course that has video so you can actually see what it looks like.
Critical: Get out there and practice, practice and practice even more.
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